Find the
one
within
yourself

Hi, I’m Sheleana Aiyana,
Spiritual
Counsellor, founder
of Rising Woman,
and author
of Becoming the One.

Where

I've been

My childhood was my first
container
for spiritual learning.

Growing up without a father and with a
mother who battled deep
trauma and
mental illness caused me to guard my
heart fiercely
and become a survivor.
I was in and out of foster homes as
a child
and eventually worked 2 jobs
to live on my own at the age of 16.

Over the next decade, I explored the
deep layers of my inner
healing through
every avenue that called me and
birthed Rising
Woman into the world.

“WHAT STARTED OUT
AS A SIMPLE VEHICLE
FOR MY
WRITINGS,
EVOLVED INTO A
BLOSSOMING AND EVER-
EXPANDING
COMMUNITY
OF OVER 3 MILLION
READERS.”

Who I am

I live and work on the unceded traditional territory of the unceded Coast Salish peoples with my family. I am not an influencer, a spiritual guru, or an expert. I’m a guide and I take great care in this work I am so privileged to do.

My internationally best selling book, Becoming the One was published in 2022.

The Journey

  • 1988

    I was born by emergency c-section
    after my Moms
    placenta ruptured and
    we both had minutes to live.
    For the first years of my life, we were
    on the run
    from my Father whom I’ve
    never met.

  • 1991
    1991

    When I was 3 years old, my mom
    dropped me off
    at a foster home and
    disappeared for months. This
    was the
    beginning of my abandonment wound.

  • 2000

    Age 12 I began heavily drinking and
    using substances,
    and I also began
    writing poetry at this time.

  • 2002

    Age 14 I battled with addiction to hard
    drugs and
    for a time was living on
    friends couches.

  • 2004

    Age 16 I began working 2 jobs and
    moved into
    my own apartment.

  • 2007

    Age 19 Entered an abusive relationship
    that would
    catapult me into my first
    spiritual awakening.

  • 2010

    Age 22 I began exploring my
    spirituality and met
    a person who I
    would later marry.

  • 2013

    Age 25 The vision for Rising Woman was
    sparked,
    but I knew I had more to learn
    before bringing
    the vision to reality.

  • 2014

    I was married, divorced and at rock
    bottom. I lost
    my business, my money,
    and even my beloved
    Cat disappeared.

  • 2015

    I began diving deep into my inner-work.
    Shadow
    work, inner-child work, plant-
    medicine ceremonies
    and every form
    of therapy I could get my hands on.
    Met my husband Ben, host of the
    EvolvingMan
    Podcast, we began our
    relationship soon after
    and attended
    my first 3 nights of Ayahuasca

    ceremonies together.

  • 2016

    I began writing through Rising Woman
    and built
    the very first website!

  • 2018

    Ben proposed to me at Sombrio Beach
    on
    a camping trip.

  • 2019
    2019

    Ben and I got married in a unique
    ceremony
    filled with spiritual ritual.

  • 2020
    2020

    We got Bodhi, our sweet and
    snuggly little Malshi.

  • 2021

    My audience grew to over 3 million
    readers
    on Rising Woman.
    Ben and I moved to Salt Spring Island
    on 10
    acres of land and forest.

  • 2022

    Published my first book Becoming
    the One.

credentials

I believe that as a guide it
is important
to stay engaged
in our own healing work to

remain clear and rooted.

Below is some of the ongoing work I
have done for my personal evolution.

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